February 26, 2010 12:55 PM PST
OH HONEY, IF YOU EVEN HAVE TO ASK QUESTIONS SUCH AS THESE, YOU ALREADY KNOW YOUR ANSWER, DON'T YOU?. SEE IT FOR WHAT IT IS...AND DON'T LET PAIN BE CAUGHT UP IN YOUR HEART. SEEMS TO ME, THERE SHOULD BE NO REASON FOR YOU TO EVEN WANT A C******KER LIKE THAT. THINK YOU SHOULD READ HAMBONES 'RETROSEXUAL MAN'. THERES STILL MORE OF THOSE OUT THERE. YOU JUST CAN'T SETTLE TO QUICKLY. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK...
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I know but its been six years of shit and I really am to blame for some of it, cause when I met him he was living with a chick and he lied to me at first saying she was somebody his brother was wit, but he finally came clean. Then we

still kept seeing each other, until he started to lie to me so I told her and then we really split for about 3 months and then we went back together even though I knew he was still with her. Now they are finally split because he still cheated on her after I left and she finally cheated on him, gave him a taste of his own medicine, and he was devastated. Now she's gone but he lied to me and led me to think she was still there and the whole time he was seeing other girls and me until I found out and made every single girl aware of how he was and then he didn't like what I did and stopped being intimate with me. He says he still has feelings for her and that he may end up back with her but it's me he's with everyday and I help him with everything. He keeps saying he still has feelings for her and unitl those feelings leave he can't commit to anybody, he's being honest I guess or is he just leading me to another painful event.


